We should never stop trying to look good. We should never become complacent. It’s possible that some of us will never
reach that ideal body, and that’s okay.
We just need to keep trying.
I realize that those statements might receive a negative
response from many people. You might be
thinking that I’m just another man that has an unrealistic expectation for
beauty, right? Not so. I just don’t like how hard we try to impress
someone when we’re trying to woo them and then completely give up after we have
them. Why does being in a relationship
mean that that other person suddenly doesn’t deserve our best anymore? Don’t we want them to be attracted to us? Don’t we want them to know that they are
worth the effort?
I realize that as love grows, you fall in love with more and
more of a person, until it’s not just their looks that you love. But let’s be realistic, we still care what
someone looks like, don’t we? There is
too much imagery in this world, tempting and tantalizing us, to not be aware of
it. And I realize that beauty is in the
eye of the beholder. I’m just saying
that we should keep trying. Let your
partner know that they’re important, and them wanting you…to chase after you
like they did in the beginning…is still important.
