When something is going on in my life, such as someone screwing me over at work, I like to talk about it. I'll tell my friends or my wife, but I don't expect them to do anything about it. I don't need them to try to solve anything. I don't need them to worry.
I'm not going to them because I need comfort. I'm not sharing because I'm looking for answers. When I need these things, I go to the Lord. He and He alone is my rock.