Archery Tournament?

Robin Hood:  Men in Tights was playing again today.  Am I the only one bothered by the scene where Robin promises Marianne that she won’t go to the archery tournament instead of himself?  Prompting Achoo to try to correct Robin, only for Robin to tell him to “cooool it!”  He is willfully deceiving her.  And on top of that, he goes to the archery tournament anyway, despite the fact that he knows she doesn’t want him to go.

But somehow this has no effect on their relationship when she discovers later that he lied to her and showed up anyway.  She overlooks it all and is only concerned with his safety at the hands of the Sheriff of Rottingham.  He lies to her, dismisses her feelings, is selfish, and lets her sacrifice herself for his only safety.  What kind of messed up start to a relationship is this?!